We all are looking for relationships that are healthy and provide us with happy moments. It can be with a special partner of in your everyday interactions. We strive for this and yet many times we fall short. We Find love but no happiness or happiness and no love. How can we finally move past these road blocks and commit to a healthy relationship?
Well we first have to look at what we’re offering. I’ve heard comments from my clients like “I deserve to have a person who loves me for me and can respect me.” Well what has been forgotten is if you are not in a healthy place yourself, you are only going to attract that unhealthy person. You will then receive the love you are presenting to others about yourself and still feeling unhappy. The happiness starts within and will flow outward once it has been achieved.
How can you expect to be loved, if you do not first love yourself? How do you expect to be respected, if you do not first respect yourself? The answer is, you can’t. You will continuously attract the negative, unhealthy, unwanted individuals you wish to avoid due to your inability to see yourself differently.
These are just some of the struggles that many people face in day to day life. With some coaching or therapy you can move forward from this stuck place and grow into your desired self. If you or someone you know feel stuck and unhappy, give me a call and let me see how I could help you.
This is just a friendly Blog from your local T.P.C. (The Parent Counselor)
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Gail Wilson is a Therapist, Life Coach and Speaker in South Florida. Gail works with mothers dealing with postpartum and fathers whom are having difficulty with transitional changes with a new child. In addition Gail works with individuals, families and couples to find their inner strength and resolve interpersonal and relational conflicts. To schedule an appointment with Gail call (754) 999-0410 or her email at email@example.com.